It is not possible to overemphasize the need for honest and open communication between you and your partner when entering into anything Lifestyle. Keep an open line of communication. The key to a successful swinging relationship is communication between partners. Establish clear boundaries. One of the most important aspects of being in the swing lifestyle is building trust with your partner. When you first start exploring the swing lifestyle, it’s important to build trust with others. Make sure to use protection and only engage in sexual activities with others when you are comfortable doing so. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to engage in sexual activities with everyone you meet in the lifestyle. It’s also a good idea to communicate with potential partners about your relationship and make sure they are comfortable with the fact that you are in a relationship. If they are not, it’s best to end the conversation there. It’s important to remember that you can only build trust with others if you are comfortable with yourself first.